Moving towards mediation, need to stop limbo

[shodan]

What put me in the dumps is a convo I had with my W yesterday. She reiterated that she has no feelings for me and is waiting for those feelings to come back before she wants to commit to working on our M. At the same time, she does not want to D (yet) because she knows that is a huge decision that will impact our kids. In her words, limbo seems like the best option for now. Of course, I know that her A is what is potentially blocking any feelings from coming back. But she still refuses to acknowledge it.

I told her that limbo does not work for me and that we both clearly have a lot to think about...