Need Help before I blow a fuse.

[20&lost]

Did better yesterday. Some positive from W yesterday. I know they are baby steps but it is something.
1. Asked if I needed lunch at the office
2. Had a brief conversation where she actually had a little laugh and smile
3. Had a brief conversation on new branch office
4. Said good night without it sounding strained.

Still do not know what is happening with OM and her parents are coming in this weekend to watch my D cheer. Also,when she is silent, I still find myself trying to start a conversation. I am getting better with this but I need to stop it completely and let her come to me.

I am stuck about what to do about the office. W is way behind on her work here and I do not know how to approach it. I need to have a conversation about things in the office but do know how to do it where it doesn't appear that I am trying to control her. We have 13 families that depend on our business and she is an integral part of it and I fear if she continues what she is not doing it could hurt the business financially. I would love some feed back or suggestions. It is real hard to do a 180 in all aspects when W is such a big part of the business.