Ahoy, I get this. Sometimes I believe I still love H, despite all intelligent evidence that I shouldn't. I do love my family and wish I still had it intact. I do love my life, my house, my neighborhood, my friends. Can I have those if I don't have H? They seem all tied together right now. Do I in fact love HIM? I don't know, either.
I could have written the above statement, as I agree wholeheartedly. For me also is the reasoning in my head that I have come to believe my wife is truly sick. Suffering from an illness that makes some parts of her unattractive at the moment. I'm choosing to stand for now. Who know what I'll do if this is still going on in 8 months.
I can't certainly understand how you feel and the reason behind your decisions. I support you no matter what you choose because, selfishly, I am feeding of your strength. And unselfishly, us LBS's need people in our corner.
Originally Posted By: rd500
Hi ahoy I get your feelings exactly. A fast forward button is what we all need And maybe a rewind to stop this crap from starting in the first place.
When you figure that one out, RD, please let me know because I'll buy 2!
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3
