Wow, only been on here a month and I've filled up my first thread...Part 1 is here:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2486274#Post2486274

Starsky: in response to your last reply, that makes total sense. Classic interrogation technique if I'm not mistaken. Anyways, like I said, I will have limited time to contact a lawyer this week and the next due to this exercise, plus we have one last planned event dating to before I got back that we need to attend. For now my plan is to keep things going, continue to collect data, and proceed with plan B once I've got myself set up.

Is this the Beyond LRT? I also don't know what to say if when I say, "I want you out of the house," she says, "or else what?" The only thing I can think of is revealing the results of my data collection to everyone that matters to her. I'm pretty sure though that once I reveal that I know about her and OM2 she will have a good enough idea of what my source is and shut it down. If she leaves the house, that would pretty much end any monitoring I would be able to do. Plus, if I go through with this, the, "get out," would be paired with a, "I'm shutting off your phone," as well.

We did talk last night about OM2 and his situation, she spent a lot of time trying to convince me that she's not who he would want as well as that he is not the type of guy she would want to be with either. I believe the latter a bit more than the former, but the messages I have belie both of those. Now I'm rambling, inputs are welcome.