IMO, that conversation went on way longer than it needed to, and you didn't need to encourage her to date. Since you're asking for an evaluation. There was a conversation on Ahoy's thread the other day about what to say if you're asked if your dating. In the future, be more mysterious. The goal is to get her thinking about what she stands to lose.
Good luck!
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15