"Mr Bond I will defintely take son to IC after he finds out what a disappointment his mother turned out to be ."
Nice way to portray your W.
"When he finds out she s been running around like a tramp cheating on his father and spending time and money on the man who is helping her tear apart our family ."
Nice again.
"And as for an apology to Maybell . Not a chance . i have nothing to apologize to her for . She labelled me with a complete one sided view making me out to be the bad person totally exempting the W of any responsibility ."
Actually no. She was calling you out on your bad behavior. This has nothing to do with you your W. It was your choice to beat the OM. Not your W's.
"Remember how this got started???"
Yeah. Both her AND you messed up in your M.
"She has been cheating on her family in case any of you forgot that point ."
Gee, as if that didn't occur to me.
Look, I get it. I had to deal with the same thing. In fact, worse than you, so don't go and act all self-righteous. Everyone here can see that the anger is consuming you. That's what everyone has been trying to encourage you to avoid.
But it's you choice. You can keep calling your W a b*tch, a h*, or whatever else you want. It makes you a worse person than she. You couldn't do it for her so she went to someone else. Go ahead and file.
Do you know how many people come back here on the boards after their first marriages didn't work out and their second ones sucked as well? Plenty. They all do the same thing you are doing right now. Holding onto anger and self-righteousness. You have a chance to change it.
But again, it's your choice. If you don't want to, then go ahead and tell your son that his mother is a whore and then file for a D. I mean after you had him help you beat up the OM (even if you didn't tell him to, that's what his impression is), you pretty much painted the picture of his mom being a slut. Wow. How would you like to think of YOUR mom as a slut? That's what you just did.
Congratulations! Time to find a new wife!
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
