1. I also get middle-of-the-night texts and emails from H.
He told me that his pattern is to fall asleep (pass out, I suspect) fairly early, then wake up at 1-3 AM, then toss and turn until he gets up around six. He says he never sleeps well anymore. (Not even in his nice little quiet, peaceful guest room? Hmmm....)
No doubt the alcohol plays into this, and whatever conscience he has left!
2. He also hardly eats anything while he's here, just chips, salsa, beer... it's not healthy.
I have decided not to say anything. If I make him something to eat, he will usually eat it.
However--- He has lost the bloated belly, and this eating pattern is more like his old self.
We always joked that I was the one eating all the food, he'd survive on virtually nothing. Eat nothing all day but two hard boiled eggs and a salad. I kid you not. He's an easy keeper, that one!
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Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?