Claire, yes. She advised to simply say, "I'm not comfortable talking about this right now" or "I'm not ready to talk about this right now".
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!
