Shining is right. Focus on you at this time. Your H is the one missing out on your girls lives, you should cherish what you have and grow those relationships as well as yourself.
We all know and understand what you are going through. Read the books and the advice Cadet sent you. Vent here and allow us to help you keep that hope because it is not too late!
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile
