I think perhaps the biggest issue was more situational. Every morning he drove an hour north and I drove south. We put the kids ahead of our marriage and now I see how harmful that was to the relationship. The OW just swooped right in and I didn't have a chance to compete. Work slowed down and there she was feeding his ego while I was texting things like "Did you feed the dog?" I was naive and complacent.
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters BD: 5/14 Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW D Final 9/17
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ― Maya Angelou
