There can be a huge differnce between a MC and a sex therapist. This is the SSM forum, your H has some ED issues, I would really recommend a sex therapist. They usually are skilled in MC and have advanced training in sexual issues. A AASECT sex therapist helped save my marriage which was an SSM.

MWD has a page on finding a MC. Finding an MC
There are two major Sex Theapy groups: the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) or the American Academy of Sexologists.
Selecting a Sex Therapist
Directory for Am Academy of Sexologists

>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.