"We are not together anymore and will not be anymore. I will that the girls where I choose when I want. The same goes for you. I will not be asking or telling you about where I take them. They will always be safe with me. Just because you don't like someone doesn't mean they can't be around them."
"We will get a divorce ASAP just saying so please stop trying to win me over.
Since Jefe's wife just stated this to him this week, wouldn't "romancing her" just be seen as pursuit, and not respecting her wishes?