Thanks for the advice. Most of it I think I have arrived at already after some time to process it. Luckily I don't really have to document my wifes issues as it is already documented by my lawyer as i keep him updated to things like her entering and leaving hospital. So the courts will know he psychological issues when the time comes.
In terms of her giving her father control and what issues that will bring I am not really mind reading. Her attorney already told my attorney that his biggest issue is controlling her father. He likes to think he is french and does not like anyone who stands up for the USA and believes in our country. So, he and I never got along. He is also a narcissist and will try and make this more about him. So, I can understand her lawyer saying he is having trouble with her old man. I am not even sure my wife knows her father thinks he is getting control of her. She is home right now, has gone back to work at both her jobs, and is basically trying to go back to things as normal. She has told my daughters that custody will still be shared 50/50 and that the girls will start staying there again starting this Friday. Her attorney did not even know she was out of the hospital.
Since it appears one hand does not know what the other is doing in terms of wife, her family, her attorney I have told my attorney not to get involved. That until we know for a fact that the father will be controlling things that I don't want him spending any time on it. I told him any proposed agreement is worthless tell we know who is truly responsible for making decisions.
I do try and get out for walks in South Windsor at the park near the police station.Where is the walk along the ct river in south Windsor? Usually I do the river walk in Windsor Locks / Suffield just across the river on 190. Right now I am planning on taking girls to Haunted graveyard at lake Compounce this Friday. After that I will have to look into things for myself more.
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