My guess is leave it be now. I just want us back to our happy place... how do we get there?
It has been my experience (b/c my H is not a talker and I am) that if I simply shut up about it and act as if I am okay, then we do get back to the happy place. You see, I am the one who wants to work everything out by talking. He doesn't. It was hard for me to learn how to not talk as a solution to everything. But I have to admit I could actually see myself hurting the situation by not shutting down my mouth. My mouth was pushing him away. Sorry to say, but I think you push your BF away the same way.
Relentless topic discussion = pushing him away
Now ask yourself, what is more important to you. Having him listen to all you want to say.......or having a closer relationship with him?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
