Thanks for that -- it all feels very overwhelming at the moment.

I know that some folks on this forum have recovered their Ms at the last moment, even after initiating D. But I can't see that happening. I guess I a feel in my heart that this is over. He is too confused, don't see any hope, and doesn't know who he is -- and of course is "seeing someone else."
I am glad for the clarity, as hard as it was to hear.
I feel strong in some ways, and eviscerated in others.

It's scary to think of all the changes coming down the pipeline.

I wish I could fast-forward to see how it all turns out.


M: 43 H: 39
D: 14
Married 15 Together 16
BD: 6/2014
S: 8/2014
OW revealed 10/2014
Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress
So over it!