Thanks for that -- it all feels very overwhelming at the moment.
I know that some folks on this forum have recovered their Ms at the last moment, even after initiating D. But I can't see that happening. I guess I a feel in my heart that this is over. He is too confused, don't see any hope, and doesn't know who he is -- and of course is "seeing someone else." I am glad for the clarity, as hard as it was to hear. I feel strong in some ways, and eviscerated in others.
It's scary to think of all the changes coming down the pipeline.
I wish I could fast-forward to see how it all turns out.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!