Could not agree more with Starsky. My D was probably the biggest factor keeping me in my sitch when things were going bad. Lies, texts to OM and so on. If not for my D I would have never put up with that kind of crap at all. Whether my W was "confused" or not. Everyone is different, but I cant see how you can just accept that and not say anything just because you had a good time. As good of a time as you had, seems like she is having a even better time.
Of course she is telling you how much better your M has been. You're not fighting with her anymore and she has two OM's on the side. Heck, seems like a pretty good set up to me.
separated since 9/01/13 M-31 W-36 D-4 Move back home 12/26/13 3 months of tough times Finally in a happy M