Trying to figure out what to do for the future. I really want to return to my home state but not sure how to make that happen with D14 and everything else. I know I don't have to solve these problems all at once, but my wheels are spinning...
You don't have to think about these problems all at once, much less solve them. That's exhausting. Personally, I've had to break all of my problems into little segments and I focus on one at a time (which is a little odd because at work I'm the queen of multi-tasking, but I guess I'm not so emotionally invested there). I think realizing what a mess your husband is at the moment makes the roller coaster move super fast - so be prepared and take extra good care of yourself.