I agree. I actually said to my W last night (when she brought this stuff up) that this will take a leap of faith on both our sides, but if we want to work on our M, we need to be fully committed. We can try for 6 months or a year, and if things are not better, at least we will know that we tried. But it starts with commitment, not having one foot in and one foot out of the door. Again, I am trying to avoid talking about the A and the OM since that just leads to more arguing and her stating that nothing happened.
I also agree that she is being stubborn. Stubborn enough to allow the D to happen in order to at least prove that we did not follow my agenda. Hence why I think I need to just try to be patient.
I found this link from Michele that she wrote for the Huffington Post. In it she says that she wrote it to send to your spouse if they are having an EA. I know my wife is having a PA, but she seems to be coming around to admitting it is an EA, although she just contends they are SUPER close friends and understand each other.
