newbie needs help part 5

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Definitely she has control issues. being together for 19yrs she doesn't realize how much I do for her! She is in a lot of pain there is no doubt in my mind! I haven't given up hope! I don't want to be nasty or unreasonable in D proceedings! it just hasn't even really started yet! I am not sure what she is going to do with living arrangements! My gut is telling me not to move out! Let her if she needs to! It may help the situation as far as her seeing the impact on our families lives. I think her childhood issues are definitely a part of this hurt and pain she is experiencing! She knows I still love her and have made impactful changes in myself! Its hard to tell her anything! I told her feelings can change! Don't give up on us! But it goes in one ear and out the other!