BIG NEWS. H called to ask me to have coffee this morning.
We do and he admits to "seeing someone." He says it's not fair to me to continue to stay married. I tell him that I decide what is or is not fair. I tell him that we can proceed with filing for dissolution in January and in the meantime we can start exploring the steps required to do so. I tell him that if things change in the meantime I would still be willing to see what is possible.

He cried a lot. I did not. At all. He is such a disaster that I am actually relieved to be done with him. Who wants to be with someone who has no idea who he is or what he wants.

I am done. I feel good about it. Moving on.

M: 43 H: 39
D: 14
Married 15 Together 16
BD: 6/2014
S: 8/2014
OW revealed 10/2014
Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress
So over it!