Yes, that is a tough pill to swallow.

I don't know what to say or tell you, other then I have said a prayer for you.

The NP is correct, in creating the image, this is not the end of the world.

Its up to you will how far you want to dig into this, other then I see little merit to informing your partners from close to 20 years ago. But if you had anything recently during your separation (not judging, your faulting you if you did), they would have the right to be informed.

I know this is easy to say, but this should have little impact on how you move forward.




Last edited by woundedfool; 10/14/14 01:42 PM.
Me: 43
M: 10y
S:15
ILYBINILWY 2/18/13
W moved out 2/18/13
Filed for D: 2/17/13
Got DB: 2/20/13
Got DR: 2/23/13
180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13
D Final Dec '13