last night, it bugged me ... so, I placed a bid to which I felt comfortable with. It was not as high as he would have wanted me to go, but he did say "bid what I want" after all...
I placed the bid because this way I took it upon myself to do what I was comfortable with and wouldn't have had to deal with him if I didn't bid. However, I was sure to not be happy with him in the morning.
The bid was accepted.
This morning he texts:
"Morning Wasn't upset"
I text back:
"then why did you leave our discussion? I feel that "bid what you want" and dropping convo mid discussion aren't "lets get along" ways.
He replied:
"fell asleep guess a would have helped"
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Sandi... this is a lie... He does NOT just drop off like that to sleep.
What do I say next?
Now he is calling me... I am ignoring it.
Do I ignore the fact that he is now lying? Lying is dismissing what he did! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
You are correct. This time of the month has me sensitive!! And it does have my feelings more intense. Keeping this in mind!
Last edited by makingmagic; 10/14/1401:41 PM.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
