Why does JCred still post? He doesn't have his own thread and just chimes in from time to time off the cuff. Every single posting I've read of his has been hurtful or combative or both.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
Oh, I have to chime in on this one. JCred is the man that said he had no idea what "the high road" meant and he didn't think you should be cordial to your spouse or x spouse.
Just did a backflip off my soapbox and stuck the landing;-). Back to regular scheduled programming.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
Amen...guess we're spotting them better than we knew.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
It looks like my W is GAL-ing better than I am. Earlier today, she sent me an e-mail about buying a software program to teach her French (like Rosetta Stone). She always wanted to learn French. At one time, she even suggested we learn it together.
She wanted me to look it over to make sure it'll be easy enough to install on her iPad, iPhone, etc.
I read the details, gave it a thumbs up and told her to go for it.
She replied, "Okay, as long as it is easy set up, as we know I am very challenged in this area!" (technology)
She's not asking me for my help. She just wants me to read it over to make sure it's something that's easy enough for her to do. Obviously if she asks me for my help installing it, I will.
At least she's talking to me again (nicely).
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!
It looks like my W is GAL-ing better than I am. Earlier today, she sent me an e-mail about buying a software program to teach her French (like Rosetta Stone). She always wanted to learn French. At one time, she even suggested we learn it together.
She wanted me to look it over to make sure it'll be easy enough to install on her iPad, iPhone, etc.
I read the details, gave it a thumbs up and told her to go for it.
She replied, "Okay, as long as it is easy set up, as we know I am very challenged in this area!" (technology)
She's not asking me for my help. She just wants me to read it over to make sure it's something that's easy enough for her to do. Obviously if she asks me for my help installing it, I will.
At least she's talking to me again (nicely).
Seems to me she's GAL and involving you. In my book, those are positives.
Of course it's also a great example of Gal that you might follow...b/c you need to GAL more than I can say.
Come to think of it, Can you name 3 GAL things YOU are doing, as of now?
What NEW Behaviors can she see that would make her believe you are a different man than you were before? Can you name 2 or 3 specifics? It helps to see them in writing, so you know how to measure your progress or if you are staying on your chosen path.
And Keep up the good work!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
