I finally caved in and texted him about the work thing/bidding. We were in discussion about what we should bid on our next purchase. I gave him my reasons and he got his back up & then stated "bid what you want"... his last words at 10:14 pm.
I wrote back:
"don't say that" "bid what you want" " our last purchase of similar was $X, but I am fine with your bid choice" "why are you upset all of a sudden? I'm just reviewing our previous bids"
>>>>>>>>> no replies.
I know he will say that he went to bed after his last response. But, thats BS!
This leaves me normally to fret all night about should I bid, or will he? Worried that If I place a bid, then it won't be what he expected & if I don't bid, he will be mad....I am venting here so that I won't fret ALL night.
I don't think I should bid... its not right that he did that to me.
I don't think this is "trying to get along"...
What is a normal dignified response to give tomorrow morning? I am angered that he leaves me hanging. Shouldn't he be concerned that he p!ssed me off now too?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
