Newcomer living in Hell

[bravo61]

Do you mean that you give her hell too or that the kids give both of you hell?

giving both of us hell-where's mommy/daddy? don't get divorced, if you get divorced i'm gonna be mad at you.

she has said that she knows it'll be her fault if the kids are screwed up. why would you even risk that?

saw her tonight at practice. it was pretty cool when i asked how her day was and she said fine, then told me what all she did. she asked me and i said it was awesome. i could tell she wanted to ask me what i did and was very curious. i kept it all to myself.

she got new boots and i mentioned them. she said that she's upgrading her wardrobe after years of neglecting for the kids and family.

so i'm never there for her but i've got the kids Mon nite, Tues nite, Wed nite, D all day thurs (i go to work Thur nite), come back on fri morning to get them off to school. and W actually mentioned that she was upset cause she was invited to a timbers game and can't go because of work. wow-selfish much? i'm stoked bout having the kids but it also saves her around $200 in childcare-but i'm not there for her (sarc). at least she gave me a couple of good hugs as she left practice to go to work. she works tonight, tomorrow nite, mandatory parenting classes wed nt, orientation for new job (2nd) thurs and fri. partially why i knew she was talking bout post D life and not work. she loves work and loves to be there.