"it was patently obvious that she was not talking bout her work."
Mindreading. If you're not her, then anything else that you say is pure speculation.
"the kids are also giving her hell (and me too)."
Do you mean that you give her hell too or that the kids give both of you hell?
"she has relayed several times that D is very caring and nurturing. her example was D cradles her when she cries. also she has burst into tears several times because she feels guilty for hurting me. at those tomes, i have not brought up our R and have had PMA. she has said that this is hard for her too and that "part of her does want a divorce". only part?"
Many WAS's still feel the pain of leaving. They worry about its effect on them and the family despite their rough demeanor. She feels it. It's part of the process. They feel that it's something the "must" do to be happy. Yet if you were to ask them what it is that makes them happy, they'll tell you that they don't know.
They think that leaving their M is the best thing to do when they don't see that the real best thing they can do is get help on themselves.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
