Mindsin - pt. 4 (the countdown begins)

[MrBond]

Tell her that you want to be told when she can't watch them and not have them passed onto her parents. Even if you are D'd, the other parent has the right to the children when the other is not available.

All this does is mess up your kids. This is another reason why I keep asking about them. And even in this case, you concentrate more on your in-laws feelings than your kids.