Thanks for the great advice, Zeus. My D14 and I are already very cuddly, so I don't know if that will do the trick -- I can definitely affirm her more, which is something I want to do more anyway, but finding a way to do it in front of someone I see erratically and not for very long usually is difficult to do. But I will try!
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!