Sometimes I have the same thoughts. "I wasted my 20's". The reality is, I had no idea how to build and sustain a marriage, and it took this kind of trauma to open my eyes. So this may have happened regardless of who I ended up with. But our goal can't be to wish about something in the past, but instead to learn from it and make positive changes so that it doesn't happen again.


Me 38, WAW 30
D11 (former marriage)
S2
T 8 years
M 3 years
BD 8/20/23
S 8/20/23