Spoke with a L on he phone. Was helpful, though basically it seems like I can do very little different than I am now, short of filing. She did say that I don't have to worry about "promising" 50/50 custody as it will not be held against me in court. That's good to know. She seems to be returning to that question over and over, as if her fear of me taking the kids is holding her back from taking any action. Though it seems like she has a whole host of anxieties in the way of doing anything here.

So stuck.


M: 33
W: 33
M: 9 T: 10
3 S's: 8, 6 and 1.5
BD: 8/3/14
Living together