"I don't think poorly of you and if I did, what would that mean for you?"
It would mean that I have even more reason to believe that there are people (like yourself) who do hard things for the right reasons.
Me thinking poorly of you would lead to that thought for you? Hmmm interesting.
I believe everyone should stop worrying so much about what others think of them. For many here it's that need to look good to the outside world that brings us here.
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Probably also that while I don't "deserve" this divorce, my actions (and inaction) certainly made it possible.
The word deserve used in this context always sets my teeth on edge. I think we all deserve to be treated with respect as we walk through life, beyond that who deserves what they get? We get what we get and make the best of it. People get so wrapped around the axle about "I don't deserve this" My kid doesn't deserve to have a chronic illness, my friends kid doesn't deserve to have leukemia after a heart transplant, my Dad didn't deserve Alzheimer's and on and on.
All we can do is accept reality, learn from our mistakes and make the best of this one life for which we've been given responsibility.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
