Ahoy, I've had crazy emotional swings from reading into something and my WAW is not even in an A. So I don't blame you for your reaction. But you can choose to keep working on it. Each reaction or setback is a drop in a bucket. Don't focus on the drops, focus on the leak. Maybe until you have a better handle on emotions, choose a driving route that is not within eyesight of his house? Just a suggestion.
Detachment has to be so much harder for you since your D14 is there. She should not be expected to detach from her dad, and she also should expect to be able to confide in you. That's a really tough sitch for you. But even though it is brutal, there is one simple question: To DB or not to DB?
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23
