Thank you, Shakspr. BTW, nice to have so many good TX men on this board. I'm a TX gal, though living in another state now. Would love to move back once this nonsense is over to be closer to family.

I will definitely check out the 5LL of Teenagers. I should really be focusing all of my energy on making things okay for her as best I can, since there's nothing much I can do about anything else at the moment. I think I'll take a field trip to the library today.

Can I just say -- I find it so embarrassing to be that woman who is always checking out self-help books from the library? I know it is ridiculous to feel this way. After all, help is help, and I certainly need it.

Last edited by Ahoy; 10/13/14 01:13 PM.

M: 43 H: 39
D: 14
Married 15 Together 16
BD: 6/2014
S: 8/2014
OW revealed 10/2014
Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress
So over it!