[color:#3366FF] Sounds like you are saying "On one hand things seem to be going my way and this battle looks like I'm going to win it- as long as I keep my changes going and We keep channels open, etc. BUT OTOH, I'm still really hurt and angry and so..."
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This is the second time I think you've said that Shodan is doing this, and I'm just not seeing it. Which decision(s) do you see him making from a place of hurt and anger?
What I see him clearly stating ad nauseum is "OTOH, I simply cannot live in a marriage with a third person in it." He has seemed calm, introspective, thoughtful and rational, albeit torn and confused of course due to the burden of the decisions he has to make. But I'm just not seeing where he's operating emotionally out of hurt and anger??
If he was, I'd be the first to tell him he needs to cool off before making such important life-altering decisions.