Thanks AJM and Matt,

I know my wife may never do the work she needs to do or face what she has done. She has had depression for more that 30 years. I am now seeing that she has never really faced it, but has run from it instead. That is a major flaw she has. She runs from things rather than just deal with them. She probably has issues from childhood on and would have a long list of issues she would have to face and work on. I believe that right now when she sees or interacts with me her flee response to having to face things is so over whelming that she would probably run blindly across a busy highway. Can she overcome this? I don't know. I can only hope that she will get help and maybe face the things that she has to. Right now she is willing to abandon everything she holds dear and flee.It is truly sad to see her reduced to this.


Twisting on Life's Rope
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