Way to go shining! Well said. While most of us on the boards never wanted D, sometimes it must happen whether we want it or not. I too, have kept looking back and thinking how such a close R like I had with my W got to where it is now. We truly were best friends. I knew in my heart that I would never just give up on my W. I just thought she would do the same for me. The thing I have learned the most is that we can only ever really know one person in this world...ourselves. I thought I knew my W. In truth, she didn't even know herself.
