Sorry to be late to this thread. None of us expected these sorts of things to happen to us, but so many common threads it's amazing to me. I found out from text messages on the phone bill. What Jefe is saying is what I've been through and seen. I too lost weight, 25# in 20 days. W said to me the other day that I was looking thin and I should eat more so I wouldn't need a new wardrobe!!!
Best advice is what you've already heard. Focus on you and the boy. Detach from H. "Let it go" is what a friend drilled into me. A little more every day. You want to get back at them, Let It Go. Everytime I want to snoop, Let It Go. When I wonder if she's really shopping or with OM, Let It Go. You can only work on you, your H may or may not come around, but you will be a better, healthier person with or without him. You must be, for your son.
One night after a weekend of family pictures at church, followed by S3 3rd b-day party, then dinner with in-laws for W b-day, I got home that Sunday evening and just took off running, like Forrest Gump. Of course I did more walking than running, and eventually went back home, but now I run every other night. Take my boys 5 and 3 for walks almost nightly. Use the pain to motivate you forward. We all will survive, even with as much as it hurts now. Lots of good people on this board to help. God bless.
Me: 37, W: 36 S6, S3 M: 8 T:11 Discovered 1st A: 9/3/14 Began DB: 9/20/14 W "ended" 1st A repeatedly Discovered at least 3 more A's, filed 10/29/14
