Thank you to everyone that posted on my thread, and helped me along my journey.
The last few days have been a turning point in my life. I have reached the point where I have decided I am no longer willing to stand for my M.
Our D is not official as of yet, but our routine is set and I am getting my boys over half the time and we are adjusting well.
It has become VERY clear to me that I was in love with being married, not in love with my wife.
I hope everyone finds the peace and tranquility that I have found in the past few days.
I hate that I have given up on the past 17 years, but I have done all that I can considering the W has checked out completely. We (the boys and I) have a great support system in place and the transition has gone smooth and finally brought peace to my life.


M42 W40
T17
M15
S13 S11
BD 7-14
A discovered 7-14
WAW moved out 10-3-14
D final 2-23-15