Nitty in a Nutshell #2

[Shakspr]

Nitty:

I know that this must be hard. That you have to examine every syllable that comes out of your mouth. That you trace and retrace every conversation. That you read piecing threads, take it slow, try not to spook him off.

I think, at this point, that I would start asking him if he understands what true forgiveness really means. And I would couple that with your need for complete transparency at some point in the future.

I would refuse, politely, to stay the night in the bungalow until every single item the OW put there was gone. He can take as long as he likes, but that is a requirement.

And know, KNOW DEEP IN YOUR HEART, that I would go to war to be where you are right now. With a shot. An actual chance. Do not let fear stop you from doing what you know you must to put your marriage back together.

Every single one of us is rooting you on. Praying for you. Hoping, that one more time, Love will Win.