Well said, Shining. You inspired me too, just when I needed it. I am at the same place you are. Oh, and I made banana muffins today! You go, girl...

Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15