I know I was upset earlier when she pointed out that she had seen his car. I'm sure she could tell I was miffed and upset. I need to be better at keeping my emotions in check -- something I told her I would work on. But that I'm also human, and I have emotions and sometimes fail. But I will try to be better and help her with her own emotions too.
So painful to watch her struggle through this.
You said it yourself - you're human, Ahoy. I dunno, I don't know the perfect thing to do in this situation, or even the right thins, and heaven knows I've been reading reams about this and there seem to be a lot of opinions. I think there would be an issue with showing no emotions. Might not that seem to them that we don't really care about the demise of the marriage, or that we're some sort of Stepford Mom? I don't think them seeing us greive or get angry once in awhile is a problem - its becomes an issue if we become consumed by these emotions and they define our daily lives.
I know this space that you're in, we're your pretty postive about the affair, but the details are still vague. I still waffle about whether or not my H is living with his OW. It's a lot worse than not just knowing for sure.
