If we are following our Christian faith and take the vows seriously, then we are absolutely doing the right thing. God's working in this somehow. That's what I'm having a tough time seeing.
On an encouraging note, I have a close friend who's girlfriend walked out the same day my wife did. He remained completely dark this entire time (2.5 months) and she just initiated contact 3 days ago and they've started the piecing process. God's working, and the principals talked about here work.
Keep the faith.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3