Ahoy,
I get caught up in this trap myself where I get so angry because I need to detach.

The the WAS's mind (or a least mine) the relationship was over the moment they decided it was in their own head. So anything they do after that is not wrong. We view the situation completely differently and therefore view all of it as being against the M and this is how the self torment starts. I'm guilty as charged. And man, I get set off quick by stuff like this too.

Hang in there and detach.

Me 47 - W 35
M 9 - T 10
2 Daughters - 7 & 9
Discovery of EA- 8/4/14
S - 8/5/15
D mentioned - 9/11/14
R & Piecing - 3/17/15
Regard one another as more important than yourselves.
- Philippians 2:3