Who does she not want to know about the A? If she is keeping it a secret, there must be somebody she doesn't want to know.
What is most important that would cause her to hide the A? (Her reputation, public appearances, influence, avoiding gossip, etc.)
The kids have told her they want nothing to do with her if she ends up in a proper relationship with the OM. And MIL feels the same . So the W is keeping it secret for a few months and then going to make out they have fallen madly in love and in a proper relationship and hope that by then the kids and MIL will accept it . I am aware of this plan due to snooping when she was home for the 2 week trial .
Me 40 W 37 Together 22 years S18 D12 WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life After the 2 weeks she has left .
