Ahoy. He's having an affair...but maybe he's out of town in OW car?
I know; it's relative. And only you can know when you are truly ready for it to be over.
Your protective mama instinct is in overdrive! I know that my W's selfish actions really only overwhelm me now when I think about how many people are being affected. And she's (just) having an emotional affair.
Me: 43 XW: 43 T15 M14 D21, SS15, S11, D8 BD: 8/6 EA / possible PA discovered 9/29 D final 10/20