Nitty, Ive been doing pretty well with GAL but injuries and weather lately have shut a lot of my existing GALs down. I have been doing a salsa class for 1-1/2 months now, and it is the coolest thing. I would love to do it with W someday, but it is all for me now. And I would continue to do it even if she files. Although if you read earlier, that has thrown a little wrench into everything as the super attractive instructor has been more and more flirty. But I'm not contacting her outside of class, so it's not affecting me too much.
Card, don't you just hate it when people comment without fully reading your thread? Haha!
My bad!
It looks like you're doing plenty of GAL. I guess I am just a GAL missionary because it helped me so much.
About the house...
I'm not a vet but this is my gut feeling: do what is right based on what is right for you and your D2, not for your W or for getting back together.
Decide on this as if W had passed away, or if you had been D from your W at least a couple of years already.
That's MHO, take it for what it's worth.
M:54, H:55 T:33, M:27 12/13 BD: EA 01/14 BD: PA, H leaves 03/14 H & OW break up 05/14 H says he will file for D 08/14 H initiates D 09/14 H wants to R 12/14 Still bungling our way through R
