Ahoy, how are you doing with the consistency of detachment? From the outside it sounds like you're doing great. I have been on a roller coaster of detachment. 3-4 days I feel ready for anything, then I'll have one thought and fall off the rails.
I'm jealous of the chocolate...
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23