Fair points. She actually did say that I am always need to do things on my own agenda. She has said that D is a big decision. I said that I agree and that I don't want to do D, but I also cannot share my wife with a third party.
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed
