Um, that's weird that she's so open with you about seeing OM. Is she trying to get a reaction? Or trying to rub it in your face? It would be better not knowing, frankly.

My one suggestion is start doing more GAL activities and be really mysterious about them. She may be telling you what she's doing, but you don't have to reciprocate. You can leave her guessing. And then actually do something -- meet new people and have fun.

And do protect yourself financially.


M: 43 H: 39
D: 14
Married 15 Together 16
BD: 6/2014
S: 8/2014
OW revealed 10/2014
Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress
So over it!