dgb -- maybe instead of imagining the butterflies that your H might be feeling toward someone else, imagine your own butterflies when you meet that next person in your life, whether it's a new and improved version of your current H or a whole new person. Something to look forward to. I, for one, am excited to think that I might have another chance at a "first kiss" with someone new, if my M doesn't pan out. Look hard for those positives and silver linings, and focus on yourself, not H.


M: 43 H: 39
D: 14
Married 15 Together 16
BD: 6/2014
S: 8/2014
OW revealed 10/2014
Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress
So over it!