dgb -- maybe instead of imagining the butterflies that your H might be feeling toward someone else, imagine your own butterflies when you meet that next person in your life, whether it's a new and improved version of your current H or a whole new person. Something to look forward to. I, for one, am excited to think that I might have another chance at a "first kiss" with someone new, if my M doesn't pan out. Look hard for those positives and silver linings, and focus on yourself, not H.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!